The longer the wait the greater the miracle

Still here

2011-11-11T08:37:00.000-08:00

We are still here- just crazy! Life with three kids four and under is a lot of fun- and a lot of work too. The little time I had to do such things like shower, cook, and blog are long gone- but it is worth it. Just wanted to give you a picture of my 4 1/2 year old, my 4 year old, and my 4 month old! :)

Callaway Gardens

2011-09-12T11:55:00.000-07:00

My mom's sweet friend has a house near Callaway Gardens and let us stay down there for a week last month. We had the best time taking walks, playing putt-putt, riding in the blaster boats, going to the bird shows, fishing, and just being outside. This is the view from the back window of her home.

This little guy LOVES to be outside

They have an awesome tire swing in the back yard that the kids (and their mommy) loved swinging on. Brett wanted to swing as high as I could push him... Kate was fine with a teeny tiny push. :)

Taking a break with Daddy

My happy, sweet, can't-get-enough of you boy!!!!

and my sweet (almost 4 year old) princess

Brett caught lots of frogs during the course of the week- and just in case you are wondering- frogs do NOT survive in a cardboard box with the lid pulled down during the hot summer :)

The "big two" (as they are now called) taking a walk with Ma and Daddy Bob

My "I really could eat him with a spoon" little guy

Brett with his new BFF Warehouse Mouse

Having fun with Mommy

The kids loved walking on the trails and finding "treasures".

Where's Reid?

There he is!

Feeding the fish and turtles

Brett LOVED the bird show- so much so that we went to all three shows they had that day.

Can you see what is in his mouth? A mouse leg!!!

T-ball (LONG overdue)

2011-08-14T09:11:00.000-07:00

Spring T-ball was so much fun. There are not many things that are cuter in this life than a little boy in a t-ball uniform. Well- I guess a little boy in a t-ball uniform that is standing in the outfield throwing his glove up in the air and trying to catch it during the game might be a little cuter. :)

Our maybe a little boy in a t-ball uniform playing infield- with his hat over his face!

Brett was the second youngest (and second tallest) boy on his team so this year was a learning year for sure. Daddy helped coach and had a wonderful time. So much fun that we are gearing up right now for fall t-ball and he is going to be the head coach. Brett loved having Daddy as his coach and Kate was an awesome cheerleader. (you can see her screaming go Devil Rays in the picture below)

This is one of my favorite sights- waving at Mommy from the outfield.

Love this boy! (and his baby brother- see my big ole belly)

Teaching Kate how to get ground balls. (Kate LOVES plain Lay's chips and gets them at every game)

Sliding into home- just for the fun of it

Brett's buddy Bryce

Reid

2011-07-06T13:39:00.000-07:00

I can't believe it has only been three weeks since Mr. Reid has entered our world. To be honest, I don't know what we did without him. I have been completely smitten by this little one and can not imagine my life without him. I am so in love!

It was such an interesting experience to have a scheduled csection. To walk into the hospital feeling fine, and have a baby within two hours is a surreal experience. After our experience with Brett in the NICU, I was so nervous to hear those first few cries and hear his apgar scores. Reid let out a nice loud cry followed by a 9/9 apgar- I was one relieved mommy. And when they told me that he weighed 10 lbs 1 oz and was 22 1/2 inches long I felt much better about how miserable I was the last few weeks of pregnancy.

The first few weeks at home have been amazingly wonderful. The kids have loved having a little brother. Daddy has stepped up big time and has entertained the "big two" with daily trips to the pool. Reid is a wonderful baby and is a fabulous eater and sleeper- I am so thankful. I must admit that I LOVE LOVE LOVE having three children- WAY more than I thought I would. My heart feels so full and I am so incredibly thankful that God has trusted us with such priceless gifts.

Cutting down the last chain

David Reid Skinner

Mommy's first look

Our precious boy

Proof that he really was that big!

Love at first sight

Brett and Kate seeing him for the first time. Kate walked in and said, "Mommy, who is that?" So cute- we have been talking about him for so long I think she was shocked that he was really finally here.

Our first picture as a family of 5

The view from out of our window!

Going home! He has mommy wrapped around his little finger already!

The kids were SOOO excited to have Reid home. They have been WONDERFUL!

Our last family member,Georgia, meets Reid

Introducing....

2011-06-23T04:24:00.000-07:00

David "Reid" Skinner
10lbs 1oz
22 1/2 inches

Reid is sweet as can be and is doing wonderful. Mommy is on cloud nine and is so glad to have that big ole baby out of her body!!!

I am having a lot of trouble putting blog posts up from the hospital so please visit my mom's blog for more pictures are details at:
www.hebrews1022.blogspot.com

Countdown until Baby Day!

2011-06-08T04:44:00.000-07:00

Our countdown chain is getting very short which can mean only one thing- it is almost Baby Day!!!! It is so hard to believe that the time has really come. We have a c-section scheduled for June 21st- but at my appointment on Monday the doctor said she didn't think I would make it that far. She also said that she thought he already weighed 9.5 pounds!!!!! Yikes!!!! That would explain the enormous stomach and swollen feet- and the fact that I can't really get comfortable anymore. A lot of you know that I have had a lot of trouble with my iron this pregnancy (my sweet friend Joy has nicknamed the baby Popeye) Normal iron levels are above 12 and mine were between 7 and 8. I took iron pills for 6 weeks but they didn't do anything, so I have had to go in to get iron infusions for the past several weeks. I am happy to say that my levels were at an 11 this week!!!! Hooray!!!!!! I am so very thankful.

I am sad to say that I have done a horrible job taking "belly" pictures with this pregnancy. I will try to take some pictures and post them soon- but for now here is one from several weeks ago. As you can see, something is in the water down here and a lot of my friends are pregnant. It has been so fun to be pregnant together.

This picture really doesn't do my stomach justice- I really think I am twice as big now. I have had several people ask me this week if I was having twins (never ask a pregnant lady that- by the way). But my favorite story was from the pool last week. Brian swam with the kids and I just watched so I just had my normal clothes on. When we were walking out a man said, "My son wanted to know why you were hiding the ball from your kids." Too funny!

May 9th

2011-05-26T06:50:00.001-07:00

The date of May 9th is a big one in our family. Five years ago May 9th we found out we were pregnant. For those of you who know us well, you know this was nothing short of a miracle. After 2 1/2 years of fertility treatments, we had decided we were done. We found out in April that year that our 2nd IVF treatment had failed, and we said good-bye to our fertility center. So, one month later, when there were two lines on a pregnancy test- we were beyond shocked. 9 months later we had our miracle son- Brett.

This is one of my favorite pictures of you Brett. Covered with mud and oreo crumbs from your t-ball game- you are all-boy and I love it!!

Jan. 4th, 2007

Then, three years later- on the very same date- May 9th- we got an email that would change our life forever. An email saying that we had been approved to review the file of Hua La Yu- our Kate. You were just 8 months younger than your brother and had had open heart surgery- something we knew very little about. After numerous phone calls to doctors and a lot of prayer, we accepted your referral and started making plans to bring you home. The four months between seeing your picture for the first time and holding you in my arms for the first time were the longest four months of my life- but they were so worth it. God knew we needed you- and we are so grateful that He chose us to be your family.

2011

2010

Happy Mothers Day

2011-03-26T06:37:00.001-07:00

I could not be any more blessed than to have these two to call me "Mommy". I am so thankful that God trusted me to be their mom. It is hard to believe that there will be three precious faces in these photos next year. Just six more weeks and I will be a mom to three. Not too many years ago I wondered if I would be a mom at all- and now- well my heart is so full.

Happy Mothers Day to you all- and especially to the most amazing, loving, sacrificial, fun, godly, compassionate, unselfish and incredible mom I have ever met- my sweet mom!

Soccer

2011-03-21T06:52:00.000-07:00

Both Brett and Kate are playing soccer for the first time this year. Kate originally said she did not want to play, but then changed her mind. I, thinking this would be the only time they would get to play on the same team together, went back and signed her up. When the schedules came out I found out that they got put on separate teams. Kate is on the 3 year old team and Brett is on the 4 year old team. It really is better for both of them, but I was sad that they didn't get to play together. And now, between gymnastics, tball, and 2 different soccer schedules, we stay very busy! I have to admit, though, that I love it!!!

My soccer studs

Brett- with his signiture "tongue out" pose

Getting instructions from coach Luke

Brett with his buddies Mary Joy and Sam

Brett and TJ- TJ is waiting on his little sister to come home from China!!

Defense

Got it!!

Brett's first goal!!!!! (sorry I cut off the actual goal)

Kate scoring a goal during practice- think she is excited?

Taking a break

Check out how big the shorts and socks are on her :)

Go Little Rascals

Running down the field

Happy girl! At least during practice- once the game started she stood on the field and cried- the WHOLE game. After the promise of a bag of chips she did much better in her next game- and by her third game she actually scored a goal!!

Taking it down for another goal!! Brett scored 2 goals his first game, 2 his second game, and 1 his third game.

Kicking it in!

Love this picture and the next one- look at the little boy in blue next to Brett- they collided in the picture above- and in the picture below he is on the ground and Brett is scoring a goal!!

Gotta love the tongue- he only does this when he is playing sports

Ma and Kate

Brian told someone that the only reason Kate was playing soccer was so I could get some pictures. Well- I think it was well worth it- she is adorable if I do say so myself!

Kick it!

Playing some defense with her buddy Harper- two little girls from her class at school are on her team.

Please don't hit me!

Kate scores her first goal!!!!

Kate with her buddy Sam

Brett with his buddy John Hayden

Daddy-Daughter Date Night

2011-03-01T08:10:00.000-08:00

Brian took Kate to the Daddy-Daughter date night at Chick-fil-A a few weeks ago and they had the best time. She knew exactly what she wanted to wear for her daddy- her "blue dress". I went into her room, opened her closet, and said "What blue dress?" - to which she quickly ran to her dress up trunk, pulled out her princess dress and said "This one!" So, guess what she wore on her date- yep- a princess dress! She was so excited. Brian said when they got to Chick-fil-A she got out of the car and said, "I love you Daddy- thank you so much for taking me on this date!" Those of you who know my sweet husband well, and who know how long it took for Kate to really trust him, know that he was crying all the way into the restaurant after that remark.

Rock Ranch

2011-02-11T06:25:00.000-08:00

I have A LOT of catching up to do- and I do mean A LOT! Thought I would start with this one from my birthday in November. If you read this blog at all you know that I love the Rock Ranch. So, for my birthday we rented a wagon there (see below) and spent the night! The kids (and I) were so excited!! Mom and Dad planned all the delicious meals, and we sat back and enjoyed the beautiful scenery. The first few pictures are of another trip to The Rock Ranch that we took earlier in the fall. The bottom ones are from my birthday weekend.

Brett driving Kate around- 12 more years and he will really be doing this!

Kate trying to drive Brett around. She crashed about 1 second after she started driving every time. Maybe we will wait until she is 20 to let her get her license!

Riding the ponies

Sliding down the tunnel- a favorite for both of them. We did this over, and over, and over again.

They have the cutest little "Tiny Town" there with kid-sized playhouses resembling everything from a bank, to a school house, to a church. Here is Brett making me an ice cream cone at the bakery.

Kate handing out money at the bank

Fireman Brett

Brett playing in the corn house

Mr. Truett Cathy was there that day so we got to get a family picture with him- such a treat!

My boys

Wrestle time with Daddy

Riding the cow cars- hey Kate

Trying to catch a fish. This sweet man got them all set up and Brett got his line caught in a tree. He walked over to the man, tapped him on the shoulder, and said, "Um, excuse me sir, we have a small problem."- I laughed so hard.

Kate trying to pick up a pumpkin

My sweet boy

For those of you who know me well- here is my traditional cookie cake

Bedtime story by flashlight by the campfire

Our wagon where we got to sleep

Kate and Ma trying to stay warm

Brett peeking at us from under his sleeping bag- when we went to bed it was freezing- and I do mean freezing- the temp. in my car said it was 29 degrees!!!- Brett says, "Um, I don't think this was a very wise idea"

See- told you it was freezing- look at all the ice crystals on the napkins

Snack time with Daddy

Daddy Bob making us some hot chocolate

The inside of our wagon

Pumping water- the kids thought this was wonderful

The view

Ma taking Brett and Kate exploring

My sweet husband and me

Uncle Rob showing Brett and Kate the cows up close

Getting a ride on Uncle Rob's shoulders

Brett and Kate have something to tell you!

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Boy or Girl????

2011-01-20T08:14:00.000-08:00

We find out what Skinner baby #3 is going to be very soon. Any guesses??? I would love to see what you think! Vote soon- the sex will be revealed next week!!!

(and I promise I will get back to blogging soon)

Merry Christmas

2010-12-24T07:56:00.001-08:00

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE SKINNERS.....

PARTY OF FIVE!!!!

Brett and Kate are excited to announce that they are getting a new brother or sister for Christmas (although they will have to wait until June to meet him/her).

We thought it would be fun to announce our fun news on the blog- so please don't be offended if you do not know our news yet. I thought it would be so fun for this little one to be able to read the comments and see everyone's surprise.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Halloween (finally)

2010-12-01T11:48:00.000-08:00

Well, since it is now December I thought it might be nice to put up some Halloween pictures. :) Our computer has been acting up and it is taking me hours to download pictures onto the blog- which is why the blog posts have been few and far between lately. I am going to try hard to catch up a little so I won't be so far behind for Christmas.

Traditional pictures by the pumpkins and scarecrow

Kate watching Daddy carve the pumpkin

Brett so proud of his pumpkin

This is the face I got when I asked him to reach in the pumpkin and clean out the insides

Brett, as you can see, got over his fear and dove right in with his sister

Brett saw this shirt at Target for Brian and insisted that we buy it for him. Brian, being the trouper that he is, wore it proudly.

Spiderman and Mulan

Heading out for the hayride in my parents neighborhood. We got two HUGE bags of candy.

Spiderman and Snow White heading out to trick-or-treat in our neighborhood

Even Georgia got dressed up this year

#7

2010-11-19T06:33:00.000-08:00

My favorite number is 4- it has been my entire life. But not anymore- my new favorite number is #7. Why, you ask? Because the cutest little 3 year old boy in the entire world just played his first team sport- and on the back of his jersey was #7. So my favorite number has changed to #7- that is until soccer season rolls around and he gets a new jersey! :)

Brett's first practice. He walked out there and played like he had been doing it his entire life- and the smile never left his face!

Got it!

On the way to Brett's first practice he asked me, "Mommy- did you make a cheerleading shirt for Kate?" So, of course she sported this shirt for his first game.

All ready to go

A kiss for good luck (now how cute is that!)

Nana, Ma, and Daddy Bob were frequent cheerleaders at Brett's games.

So proud to have made it to first base

Giving "high-fives" after the game

Cousin Cara came to watch a game

The Tigers

The parents got to stand on the field with the kids so they could help out. I am not sure who enjoyed that more- Brian or Brett. Brett LOVED playing pitcher- he loved being a part of the action.

Running for the ball

Throwing to first base

Getting ready to hit

On first base after his "home run" - which means that the ball rolled to the back fence

Not sure what they are talking about here but they look so serious- and I love Brett's hand in his back pocket.

Kate with her buddy Brody

Little Slugger

Waiting for their trophy. The last game was on Halloween weekend so they could wear their costume if they wanted to. Brett, thankfully, choice to wear his uniform.

So proud

Brett- we are so proud of how well you did playing your first team sport. You loved every second of it (and we did too). We look forward to many, many, many more years of cheering you on!

Fun times at the beach

2010-11-15T06:26:00.000-08:00

The kids both LOVED the beach and we had a wonderful time- despite the fact that they both got sick while we were there. We started off the trip in style with a snack of their choice - Brett choice a donut, Kate chose Cheetos. They were amazing on the car ride (thanks to the amazing DVD player!), and got to share a room for the first time at the condo. They had the best time being in the same room- they were so cute. We got donuts from the Donut Hole every other morning, spent every day at the beach or the pool, played t-ball at the park, and had a fabulous time being together for a whole week.

Mmmmm!

Kate's first glimpse of the beach. Brett was so proud to show her the beach. After we had been there a few minutes I said "Well baby- what do you think" She replied, "Mommy, I like this sandbox."

Getting their feet wet for the first time.

The first night we were there we had a picnic then watched the sun go down. The sky was beautiful- I don't think I have ever seen a prettier sunset. Too bad we had "play clothes" on.

Dancing in the sand

My boys

Even Georgia got to come!

Testing out the waters...

and not a big fan of the waves!

Going to fill their buckets with water

Cute girl

Blowing bubbles

Brett "surfing"

Brian dug a huge hole every day and Brett would spend all morning jumping into in. He LOVED it.

Not to be out-done by her brother- Kate joins in the action.

Kisses for Daddy

Where is Brett?

Covering Daddy with sand

I wrote Brett's name in the sand- and he wrote mine (it says mom)- sweet, sweet boy

Jumping the waves- Brett enjoyed this way more than his sister did

My very favorite boys

and my favorite little girl

More kisses for Daddy

Hanging out in the hole with Daddy

My sand-covered duo

Hanging out with Daddy Bob

Brett's other favorite thing to do at the beach- dig for treasures with Ma

My bathing beauty

Jumping again- this time Daddy filled the hole with water

Diving into the water- crazy kid

Loving every minute

Getting some snow cones

Hanging out in Seaside

The Beach- in khaki and white

2010-11-10T13:06:00.001-08:00

Thought I would do two posts on our trip to the beach- one with the "khaki and white" pictures, and one of the kids just having fun. These pictures don't need any description- they speak for themself- I have two stinking cute kids!! :)

Kate's birthday party

2010-10-05T13:04:00.001-07:00

We had a wonderful time at Kate's birthday party. We had a Mickey Mouse/Minnie Mouse theme which Kate was so excited about. The weather was wonderful (love having a child with a Sept. birthday) and all of her friends were able to come. It was so fun to finally be able to have a birthday party for our girl.

All decked out in our ears (Brian was such a trouper)

Minnie and Mickey Mouse ears for all our guests. And Mickey silly bands to take home.

Minnie Kate and Minnie Mommy

Minnie's Masterpiece Station- sweet Kaleigh helped all the kids paint their own Mickey or Minnie shirt.

Kate LOVES to play in the sandbox, so we hid a bunch of Mickey, Donald, Minnie, etc characters in the sand for the kids to find.

Bean bag toss

My mom made this cute mailbox!

The birthday girl getting ready for her party.

(most of these pictures were taken in the basement which is why the color is so "off" in them)

Cupcakes

Minnie Mouse and Mickey Mouse picture frames I made

The cake

Sweet, sweet Anna Grace drove 1 1/2 hours to come to Kate's birthday party!! I think you can tell how excited Kate was to have her there.

Cara (who also drove an hour to be at the party), Brett, and Kate playing in the sandbox

Kate's favorite part of the day- getting to hold baby Laney

Kate also LOVES playdoh- so I made "magic" Mickey mouse playdoh. I made playdoh balls in the shape of Mickey's head and hid several drops of food coloring in them. They had to knead there playdoh to find out what color they got.

Chloe and Noah playing outside

Caleb playing the bean bag game

Lunch- chicken nuggets and mac-n-cheese- two of Kate's favorite things

It is hard to see in this picture, but the kids watched a Disney sing-a-long video during lunch- it was a big hit.

Opening up her presents. Our house has officially been invaded with Princess stuff.

Daddy bringing out the cake

Once again blowing our her candles.

Answered prayers

2010-10-04T12:54:00.000-07:00

I have a ton of pictures from Kate's birthday party and the beach to post- but I didn't want to forget something that Brett said today so I thought I would go ahead and record it.

We were outside playing and eating a Dove chocolate after lunch. Inside the Dove wrappers are quotes- sort of like fortune cookies. He wanted me to read his to him. It said,

"What would you do if you knew you would not fail"

I then asked him, "Buddy, if you could do anything in the world what would you do?"

His answer-

"Love Kate"

Happy "Gotcha Day" Kate

2010-09-17T06:21:00.000-07:00

One year ago today we waited not so patiently for you to come to our hotel room. I was so nervous- the most nervous I had ever been in my life. They were late bringing you to us so I made Daddy play a card game with me to try and calm my nerves. I had dreamed of this day for most of my life, and it had finally come. It was just Daddy and I in the room, so we set the video camera on top of several books and I stood next to it for what seemed like forever so I could hit "play" when the knock on the door came. Daddy was set with the camera to take pictures of the first few minutes you finally met your Mommy. We thought you would come in calm and not crying- boy were we wrong. Your face was already red from crying by the time you walked into our room. Your hair was so short and your face was so red that I almost didn't recognize you at first. And then they placed you in my arms and I knew you were mine. You cried for a loooooong time. I carried you around the halls in our hotel for about an hour. You calmed down when we were walking, but any time I got close to the door of our room you cried again and would kick your feet. You stopped crying by the time we had to leave to get pictures made for some paperwork, but you did not show us your smile until 8 hours after you first walked into our room. We put you on the bed in our room and blew bubbles and you laughed and smiled- and that was it. No more tears, no more pouts- just smiles. You were a different child. Daddy gave you a full pack of mini M&M's (which is still your favorite candy) and you decided that maybe we weren't so bad after all.

It is so hard to believe that it has been a year- because I don't remember a time that you were not a part of our family.

When I think back over the last year what stands out the most to me is your relationship with your brother. There is no way I could have imagined how much he was going to love you- and you love him. It is something only the Lord could have done. I am so thankful for your special relationship and pray that you will always be best friends.

We love you so much Kate Layu! Thank you for allowing us to be your forever family!

The first time Mommy got to hold you

The first smiles we got to see

One year later- what a difference

Loving on your Mommy

My beautiful, happy, joyful, smart, caring, loving, funny little girl

One year ago today

2010-09-15T11:35:00.000-07:00

One year ago today, after years and years of waiting and hoping, we boarded the plane to fly to China to get our daughter.

One year ago today I sobbed as I said "goodbye" to my precious boy for 17 long days.

One year ago today I was a nervous, excited, anxious momma as I waited to hold my daughter for the very first time.

One year ago today my sweet girl was still in the orphanage waiting for her forever family to come get her.

One year ago today our life was about to be forever changed-

I am so glad that it did!!

Outside the Atlanta airport

"Flat Brett" on the plane to China

(another new post below)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATE!!

2010-09-14T18:08:00.000-07:00

My sweet girl turned three today. I can't tell you how wonderful it was to have her in my arms for her birthday this year! I am not sure who was more excited- me or Kate!

My beautiful 3 year old

I mean really- could she be any cuter?

Striking a pose for the camera

We started the celebration last night. My sweet friend Keri and her three kids- Caleb, Samantha, and Noah- came over to spend the night with us. (both of our husbands were out of town last night). All the kids were so excited. Cake #1 was brought out last night- and I think you can tell by her face how excited Kate was.

When I asked her what her favorite thing was about her birthday she said, "Blowing out the candles"

The gang at breakfast. We all went to Kate's room to wake her up with her choice of breakfast- Chocolate- chocolate chip muffins (the girl loves her chocolate!) Wish I had some pictures of that but I video taped it instead of taking still pictures.

Happy girl with her birthday crown, muffin, and her long-awaited Leapster

Celebrating with all her friends at school. Poor thing cried almost the whole time because she didn't want me to leave. Of course she was fine when I really did leave- but it just about ripped my heart out.

Ma has Bible study at the same church where Brett and Kate go to school- so she got to come for the party.

My two crazy 3 year olds!!

My sweet friend Keri brought over window markers so we decorated the car for Kate's birthday. (At midnight- since I waited until last night to make her birthday outfit- thanks Keri for staying up late with me)

So proud of her "birthday car"

While Brett and Kate were in school I went to Kate's favorite restaurant- Chin Chin chinese- to decorate the table for lunch. Her eyes lit up when she saw the table and she jumped right up and started blowing her horn. Everyone at this restaurant LOVES her. The owner always brings her an extra bowl of noodles and gives Brett and Kate a take-out box with lollipops and extra fortune cookies in it when we leave.

Ma and Daddy Bob gave Kate a pretend birthday cake for her play kitchen. Brett fixed it with three candles and had her "blow" them out.

We still keep in touch with the sweet family that took care of Kate after her heart surgery in China. They sent her a birthday present and a birthday card. We are so thankful that she still has a piece of her past to hold on to. They obviously loved Kate a lot- and we are so incredibly thankful for them.

Blowing out another candle

Kisses from the birthday princess

Opening up her presents from the Garrett gang

Yet another birthday dessert- this is what the cupcake should look like...

and this is what happens if you leave the cupcake in the hot car! (my poor mom had to buy another set of cupcakes because the first ones melted on her)

Blowing out the candles one more time- can you tell how much she loves it!!

Kate- we are so thankful for your life. As your birthday crown says, God certainly did give us "immeasurably more than all we could ask or imagine", when He gave us you.

WE LOVE YOU!!

Pre-school Rocks!

2010-09-09T12:31:00.000-07:00

I told my mom that I was going to get a t-shirt made with that on it- for ME! I cried half the morning the first day of pre-school, but by day three I was skipping out the door. Wow- I didn't know how nice it was to go to the grocery by myself. I can actually think!!

Brett and Kate are still loving school, although Kate got teary today on the playground. She is so excited about going every morning, but when we get there she asks for Brett to stay with her. Overall, they are both doing great though (and we have gotten all happy faces in our folders so far!!)

They came home with these this week. How in the world am I going to throw anything away??

Kate's- 35 inches tall, 26 pounds (and that is fully dressed)

I know I am biased, but I think that is a pretty good face for a 3 year old!

Yep, the tears came again on this one- I love "Mommy and Daddy" and I like to "play with my sister". Oh you sweet boy!!!

And I laughed that he said his hair was "white".

Brett- 44 inches tall, 39 pounds (again fully dressed)

First day of Pre-School

2010-08-31T11:22:00.001-07:00

The long awaited first day of Pre-school was today and I had two VERY excited kids. Kate woke up 2 times last night (something she has never done) to ask if the sunshine was out yet so she could go to school. The first time she woke up she didn't call for me or Brian- she called for Brett- how cute is that! We had orientation last week and got to meet their teachers. They were so excited to see their rooms. They have been counting down the days since then to today. Brett wanted to take Kate to her room first. He took her all around her room to show her where her name was and show her all the pictures of her on the wall and her cubby. Kate started getting worried and asking if we were going to stay with her. I told her again about how she was going to stay with her friends and her teachers and I would be back after lunch. I also assured her that Brett was going to be right down the hall. Brett came over and started rubbing her back and patting her and giving her hugs. I almost lost it right there. Sweet big brother. We snuck out while she was with her teacher and took Brett to his room. He walked right in, hung up his bag, and started playing like he had been there for years. He gave us a hug, told us good-bye, and didn't even watch us leave. I was shocked- but very glad. The first day of pre-school and the only one who cried was me! Now I know how all those moms felt when they dropped their kids off to my Kindergarten class. I didn't think I was going to be so sad- but I was. Nothing a sweet tea from Chick-fil-A and some shopping couldn't fix though.

My sweet babies

Mommy's girl

Playing with Daddy

Kate ironing

Brett's favorite- the computer

Washing dishes with Daddy

All ready to go for our first day

This one is my favorite- I did not ask them to kiss each other- they did that all on their own

Walking in with Daddy

Crossing the street- look at Miss Priss with her hand on her hip :)

In front of her room

Giving each other hugs

Kate's teachers- Miss Angie and Miss Jenny

The cutest bumblebee I have ever seen

My boy

Brett and Daddy outside his classroom

Hanging up his bag

Brett with his teacher Miss Joan

Ma and Daddy Bob came with Mommy to pick us up

Happy campers after the first day!! They LOVED it!

What I overheard in the back seat of the car today...

2010-08-27T13:48:00.000-07:00

Brett: "Kate, when you were in China I missed you"

Kate: "GeGe, when I was in China I cried and cried and cried until you came to get me."

Kate and Anna Grace

2010-08-15T17:34:00.001-07:00

Sweet Anna Grace and her mom and brother came down to spend the night a few weeks ago and we had the best time. Kate LOVES Anna Grace- and Anna Grace LOVES Kate- so they had quite the time together. I loved having a little break from my "shadow" as well. Thank you Anna Grace for being such a great "big sister" to Kate.

Anna Grace picked out some fabric and we made matching dresses for the girls

Anna Grace and Kate in their matching P.J.'s

Toy Story 3

2010-08-09T12:03:00.000-07:00

As you know, our sweet boy LOVES all things Toy Story- so we have been counting down the days to the release of Toy Story 3. We got tickets early and planned a "Mommy-Daddy-Brett" date for opening night. (Kate is not a big fan of movies) We have not done anything with just Brett since Kate got home, so we were really looking forward to his special night. We let him pick the restaurant and he picked La Parilla- our favorite mexican place. The first thing he did when we walked in was pick out a balloon to take home to Kate- sweet brother. After dinner we waited in line for 45 minutes to get into the theater (crazy huh). We all liked the movie and had so much fun spending time with our little guy. On the way home I asked Brett if he had fun having Mommy and Daddy all to himself and he said, "No, I missed Kate". Can you believe that!!!! They really do love each other so much!

Getting ready to go

Horrible picture- but had to include it anyway. This is Brett and Kate kissing each other

good-bye.

In front of the movie

Ready for the movie to start. How cute is he taking all of his stuffed animals in with him. Oh I could just eat him up!!!

Big News

2010-08-02T19:33:00.000-07:00

The Skinner home is now diaper free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One year ago today

2010-07-28T07:03:00.000-07:00

A year ago today we received the most important piece of paper I have ever received- Kate's Letter of Acceptance. We waited what seemed like FOREVER to get this very important piece of paper. This paper told us that China officially accepted our request to adopt Kate. It was a happy, happy, happy day.

Sweet girl, we sure are glad that it is one year later and you are in our arms and not just in our hearts anymore! We love you!!

Cow Appreciation Day

2010-07-26T07:43:00.000-07:00

We, of course, celebrated Cow Appreciation Day at Chick-fil-A a few weeks ago. If you don't know about this- every year Chick-fil-A has one day a year that they give away free food to anyone who dresses up like a cow. Mommy even let go of her pride and dressed up this year. Anything for a free Chick-fil-A right?

Taking a picture with Daddy

At the restaurant with all our friends

Meeting the cow- Brett was scared to death by the cow- so he wouldn't get his picture made with him.

Happy 4th of July (a little late)

2010-07-16T06:48:00.000-07:00

We had such a fun 4th of July. Our church had a big picnic on the 3rd- then we went to Peachtree City for the fireworks. On the 4th we went to my mom and dad's neighborhood. They have races and a cookout and end the day with fireworks. It sure was fun to have Miss Kate here with us this year!

I have no idea what she is saying in this picture- but her face just cracks me up!

Watching the fireworks with our friends. We made the girls matching dresses.

All the kids

My happy girl

An attempt at a family photo

The beginning of the fireworks. Kate got used to them and actually really liked them. Brett stayed like this the entire time.

Daddy's girl

Walking to the lake with Daddy Bob

Brett checking out the crickets

A rare photo of just the two of us

How cute are they!!! My two guys playing volleyball.

Uncle Rob and Kate feeding the ducks

Action shot- playing a little badminton

Taking a ride on the paddle boat

Playing with the sparklers. I didn't think they were going to like these but they loved them. We went through 4 boxes!

Picking peaches and blueberries

2010-07-12T12:19:00.000-07:00

Just when I (sort of) got caught up on the blog- I am waaayyyy behind again. How does that happen? This summer has been so fun, but so busy too. I just can't seem to find the time to sit down at the computer- so sorry to my 3 faithful readers (Stacy, Joanne, and Cat)

A few weeks ago Marissa and Maris (two girls that I used to teach with) came for a visit. After a long ride out in the country (all while they not-so-eagerly watched Miss Pattycake- sorry girls) we arrived at Gregg's Farm. We picked a huge bucket of peaches and a pail of blueberries and then treated ourself to some delicious peach ice cream. Yumm!

Brett finds a big peach

Sweet Maris carried Kate around the whole time because the ground was wet and my little "I don't like to get dirty" princess did not want her feet to get wet.

How about this one mom?

Checking out the peaches

An attempt at a group photo

Helping mommy carry the bucket

Picking blueberries. I think it is safe to say that more blueberries went into Brett's mouth than his bucket. He LOVES blueberries!

Brett sharing his ice cream with his sister (I love how he has is mouth open as he is giving it to Kate)

All the girls

The nicest man was there eating ice cream too. He talked to Brett the whole time. It was so cute to see the two of them. Brett thought he was hysterical.

I think she likes it!

Black and White Wednesday

2010-06-30T17:15:00.000-07:00

These pictures were taken on Father's day. The last two are my favorite. The one of Kate and Brian simply because it shows their pure joy. The one of Brett and Daddy Bob because after we were done taking pictures Brett ran over to my dad, put his arm around his leg, and said "Just one more picture Mommy". I think you can tell from the picture how much he loves his Daddy Bob!

First trip to the dentist

2010-06-22T11:48:00.000-07:00

Brett and Kate had their first trip to the dentist. We were worried that Brett had a cavity, but thankfully he did not. Big brother Brett went first and was so excited that he got to sit in the chair by the Toy Story poster. He also got to were green glasses- his favorite color.

Taking a look around his mouth. All went well until they tried to clean his teeth- then he panicked. The dentist was awesome, but we had one assistant at his head, one at his feet, and me holding his arms. He was scared to death- poor thing.

After Brett recovered the dentist told me that he did not have any cavities, but had a few spots that I needed to watch. He also has a large overbite (like his mom and dad).

Kate got up in the chair, fake cried for a second because she saw her big brother do that, and then was a champ. She acted like she had done this every day of her life.

She was so brave and held her mouth wide open the whole time.

When the dentist was finished with her, he told me that her teeth were "textbook perfect". He said her teeth looked great, her bite was perfect, and her teeth were in perfect alignment. I said, "So what you are telling me is that my child that has my genes has not so great teeth, and my child that does not have my genes has perfect teeth." He laughed and said, "Yes, that is pretty much it."

Picking strawberries

2010-06-16T17:11:00.000-07:00

It has become a tradition to pick strawberries every year and make jelly. This year, we were happy to have an extra set of hands to help us pick. Kate caught on very quickly and was a strawberry picking pro. Brett, however, was the master. He filled up an entire bucket by himself. He was so proud of himself. We picked enough to make over 20 jars of jelly, plus plenty left over to freeze for our smoothies. Even Miss Kate, who does not like fruit, ate some strawberries.

Kate trying to pick up the bucket

Brett showing her how it is done

Brett's bucket- half way there

Taking a break

Picking with his friend Mary Joy

Sneaking a taste- there is a man that works there and walks up and down the aisles making sure no one is eating the strawberries while you are picking them. Personally I think this is just wrong- part of the fun of picking them yourself is getting to eat a few along the way. So, I did what every law-abiding mom would do- I let him eat every bite of this strawberry!!

Kate showing off her strawberry

Working hard to find a strawberry

Cute thing waiting for a kiss

"Please try a bite Kate. It is good"

Yummm!

Kaleigh's game

2010-06-16T11:34:00.000-07:00

My sweet niece Kaleigh plays softball and invited us to a game. Brett and Kate ADORE Kaleigh- who they call Kaka. Kaleigh played great- and even hit a home run!!! Thanks for letting us come Kaleigh!

Brett was fascinated

Isn't she the prettiest softball player you have ever seen?

Brett and Kate love Kaleigh

Running the bases- Brett thought this was wonderful

Kate joining in on the action

About 10 minutes after these pictures were taken Brett threw up ALL OVER the car. It was not a pretty sight (or a pretty smell for that matter). Poor thing.

Disney- Day Four and Five

2010-06-08T13:10:00.000-07:00

Day Four we decided to go to Epcot. Our day started with all of the main characters. Mickey was first. Brett was very proud to show him his stuffed animal of Mickey.

Brett giving Pluto a hug

Goofy

Minnie Mouse- Brett would not get his picture made with her- funny boy

Mulan- she thought Kate was the cutest thing and spent 5 minutes with her (I am sure the people behind us did not appreciate that). She gave Kate a kiss on her cheek that stayed on the whole day.

Making masks in China. While "in" China we got Kate some potstickers. This girl LOVES any kind of noodle. I think she could out-eat Brian in a noodle eating contest.

Brett is into making campfires these days. He makes them in our backyard, and decided that Epcot needed a campfire too.

In front of Peter Pan and the the alligator. Brett actually asked me to take this picture.

By day five we were all exhausted and decided to take it easy in the morning and then go see a parade at night. So, we decided to go swimming. Kate had never gone swimming before so we weren't sure how she would like it but she did great. (and looked mighty cute too!)

Her favorite part of the pool was splashing Daddy.

Ready for our last day at the park

Riding Toy Story one last time

"To infinity and beyond"

We had the BEST time at Disney. The kids still talk about it every day. Good thing we get to go back in January for Daddy's marathon. They are already talking about what park we are going to first and what rides we are going to ride. Let the countdown begin!!

Disney- Day Three

2010-06-08T12:33:00.001-07:00

Day 3 and we were back to the Magic Kingdom. Brett and Kate were starting to get into the swing of things by now and both woke up every morning asking when we were going to see Mickey. They both loved seeing where we got to park every day too- and Brett always remembered at the end of the day where our car was parked! (he didn't get that from him Mommy). We loved all the parks, but Magic Kingdom was our favorite. We have a Sing-Along video made in the 1980's of Disney songs that the kids love. One of the songs is "Walking right down the middle of Main Street USA"- they sang it every time we walked into the Magic Kingdom. Wish I brought my video camera so you could see them- they are so cute!

Ready to go- with Mickey and Minnie in hand. Brian bought these at Publix when we got there- they took them everywhere!

Mommy and Kate in front of the castle

The fam

Kate "shooting the bad guys" on the Buzz Lightyear ride

Brett sneaking a sip of Mommy's Diet Coke- you get to cheat a little at Disney, right?

Kate was so excited to meet the princesses. Brett did not want to get his pictures made with them. He also didn't want to get his picture made with Minnie Mouse- heaven forbid he be next to anything "girly". I thought it was so funny. Kate's favorite princess is Sleeping Beauty, or as she calls her, Stinkin' Booty. She blew all of the princesses a kiss when she left them and then said, "Catch it" to them. So cute!

Riding the carousel

Minnie Mouse taking a ride on Daddy's shoulders

Disney- Day Two

2010-06-01T07:47:00.000-07:00

Hollywood Studios- the day that Brett had been waiting for because that is where he could see his all time favorite character- Woody. As you might remember from the Easter Bunny- Brett is TERRIFIED of anyone in a costume, so I didn't think he would actually let us take a picture of them together. The first people we saw when we got there were Pluto and Goofy. The line was very short so we decided to give it a try. Much to my GREAT surprise Brett did wonderful with the characters. After we left them he said, "Mommy they weren't scary, they were nice". Kate was a little hesitant, but followed after her big brothers lead.

Then it was on the to main attraction- The Toy Story ride! We were all four excited about riding it. They had a Mr. Potato Head as a comedy act while you waited in line. He actually talked to Brett- saying "Hey you in the green shirt" - Disney thinks of everything.

Off we go- Mommy and Brett (or should I say Woody and Bullseye) are ready to shoot!

Brett and Daddy riding on the rocket. It is hard to believe that Brett is going to be as tall as Brian one day!

Kate and Mommy waiting in line to meet Buzz and Woody

The long awaited day was finally here- Brett got to meet Woody. He went right up to him and gave him a hug without any hesitation.

All that excitement put Kate right to sleep

Brett with one of his other favorite characters- Lightning McQueen

Brett with one of the "green men" from Toy Story. Brett LOVES the color green right now so he loved this guy.

Waiting for the parade- how cute are they!

Here comes Woody! We had the perfect seats for the parade. The float with Jessie and Woody on it stopped right in front of us.

Woody telling us hello!

Woody came right over and gave Brett a high-five! Of course I was too slow with the camera to get the picture- but here he is right afterwards

Dancing in the street with Brett and Kate

Miss Priss being her normal cute self

And sweet Brett finally giving in to the nap

Disney- day one

2010-05-31T11:53:00.000-07:00

Since it has been almost a month since we got back from Disney, I thought it was about time to put some pictures up (that and the friendly reminders from Mandy). We had an absolute blast at Disney. There has not been one day since we got home that Brett has not asked to go back. Every plane that we see in the sky is going to Disney, and every car that passes us is going to Disney. He will say, "Mommy, that car is going to Magic Kingdom, and that one is going to Hollywood Studios". Cracks me up every time.

We got to Disney around lunchtime on Tues. We let the kids take a nap and then headed to the Magic Kingdom. First stop was the Buzz Lightyear ride, followed by the Teacups- Brett and Kate each got to pick their first ride. They loved every single ride. I was a little worried about how Kate was going to do- she is not one for adventure- but she LOVED it. I think their favorite part of the first day, however, was the parade. It was wonderful. They sat spellbound the entire time. Disney really is a magical place isn't it!

I am all ready to go Mommy!!

Brett's first pick- Buzz Lightyear

Kate's first pick- the Teacups

Mommy's first pick- Splash Mountain. Kate wasn't tall enough to ride yet so Brett and I rode this one by ourself. He LOVED it. If you ask him what his favorite ride was he will tell you "Splash Mountain".

There we are in the front- about to go up the big hill

And after- not too wet

Kate driving the race car

The parade- it was wonderful

Happy Referral Day!

2010-05-18T12:28:00.000-07:00

One year ago today we sent in our Letter of Intent to adopt Kate. After years of waiting, we finally had a face to put with our daughters name. We had three pictures of her, a 10 second video, and about 10 pages of medical information. She was described as being "extroverted, active and pretty". That is all we knew about our little girl. And now, a year later, we know what time she wakes up, what she likes for breakfast, what her favorite toys are, what her favorite thing to wear is, what her voice sounds like, how strong her hugs are, how cute her lips are when they pucker to kiss you, how easily she gets upset if she thinks you are leaving, how happy she is every single time she wakes up, how much she loves to sing, how much she loves to talk, how she LOVES to be the center of attention, how social she is- so much so that I have to roll her window down every time we go to Chick-fil-A so she can say "hello" to the people working there, how excited she gets - jumping up and down and saying "I am so happy" -when she finds out we are going somewhere that she loves- like to music class or to see her friends, how she loves to be neat and tidy, how cute her little laugh is, how contagious her personality is. I can't believe a year has passed since Kate entered our life. We love you so very much Peanut and can't imagine life without you. Thank you for letting us be your mom, dad, and big brother. As your Daddy would say- You are AWESOME!!

Kate with her referral photo

Proud big brother Brett

Daddy Bob's birthday

2010-05-17T11:38:00.001-07:00

You know those days that are just perfect? The weather is beautiful, everyone is in a good mood, you get to spend the day outside, you are with all of your favorite people- well Dad's birthday was one of those days. One of mom's sweet friends has a lake house by Callaway Gardens and let Mom and Dad stay for several days. Brian and Rob took the day off on Dad's birthday and we all went down and enjoyed the beautiful day. It really was a perfect day- I am smiling now just thinking about it. One of the things that made it so special is that Brett and Kate both caught their first fish- and on Dad's birthday- it couldn't have been on a better day. My dad and brother are avid fishermen, and I admit that I, too, love to fish. Love to fish I said- I will not, however, bait the hook or take the fish off- a girl has her limits right! :)

We love you Daddy Bob. Thank you for sharing your special day with us!

Kate and Mommy enjoying the view

Watching Uncle Rob bait the hook

Learning from the pro

Catching the big one!!!!

I think the face says it all

Holding the fish all by himself!!

My favorite men with Brett's first fish- love Brett's face in this one

Kate practicing her fishing skills

Kate catching her first fish- with a little help from Mommy

The fam with Kate's fish

Brett playing with the worms- he could have done that all day

Kissing Daddy's fish

The fishermen

Daddy fishing with Kate

Real men fish with Spiderman fishing poles!

Brett's tongue after eating the lollipop Uncle Rob gave him

Kate, Ma, and Brett taking a walk

Even Mommy caught a fish (or 6 or 7)! - note who is holding the fish :)

Chickens!

2010-05-15T12:53:00.000-07:00

My very brave friend, Keri, got 12 chickens to raise so went over to play with the chicks before they got too big. Brett LOVED them and was surprisingly gentle with them. Kate loved them too- as long as she didn't have to hold one. :) Here are a few pictures of the kids with the chickens.

Indy

2010-05-12T11:45:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago we went with Brian to Indianapolis to visit my best friend, Stacy, and her family. We had the best time! The kids loved playing together and I loved catching up with my sweet friend. Stacy and I have been friends since 5th grade and have seen the best and worst of each other. I must say, however, that being a mom has brought out the very best in her. Stacy is a wonderful mom- I just wish we lived closer so I could learn more of her parenting secrets. I am so proud of you Stacy! Luke and Baylie are so blessed to have you as their mom!

There is a beautiful park near Stacy's house that we go to to try and get some cute pictures of the kids. Here are a few of them.

Tadpoles

2010-05-06T12:28:00.000-07:00

I am so far behind in updates it is overwhelming- but I am really going to try to catch up this week.

Several weeks ago we went to my friend Keri's house to hunt for tadpoles. The kids had a BLAST! Brett- in true form- went right in the water without any hesitation. Kate, on the other hand, wanted NOTHING to do with getting dirty- but she still had a good time. We are now the proud owners of 4 tadpoles. The kids love them and can't wait until they turn into "Ribbits".

I might not want to get dirty, but I sure do look cute!

Hunting for a tadpole

Even a princess can hunt for tadpoles :)

The boys having fun

Two of our new tadpoles

Watching them swim

One year ago today

2010-04-30T13:43:00.000-07:00

One year ago today I saw my daughters face for the first time. I knew that the Hope list from our agency was coming out, and I had been nervous all day. Brian and I had talked about looking at the "special needs" list before, but never at length, so I didn't know why I was so nervous about it coming out. About four o'clock that day we got an email that from our agency saying they were having computer problems and the list wasn't going to come out until the next day. Around 6:30 that night I was leaving my parents house to take a walk to their lake with Brett when I saw my phone blinking that I had an email. It was from our agency saying the list was up. I ran to their computer and sat there looking at all the children with tears coming down my face. My mom came in right as I had Kate's file open and she said, "That is the most beautiful referral photo I have ever seen." I had to agree. Without even talking to Brian (he likes to remind me of that) :)- I sent an email to our agency asking for more information on three little girls- but asked that if we could only see one that it be for Kate. Honestly I didn't think we had a chance at being able to review the files- there were 100's of families looking at the same list that I was- and most of them wanted young girls. A week and a half went by without us hearing anything- and then we got "THE" email- I will save that story for next week. :)

The face I fell in love with

My beautiful girl

Easter egg hunt

2010-04-08T09:37:00.000-07:00

Yes- I know that this post is weeks behind, but I am going to try to play catch-up and post a few pictures. Long story short, I somehow lost ALL my pictures and after hours of crying and four phone calls to Apple, I have them back- although I still can't access them directly for the blog. So, that is why I have not posted is several weeks. Ok- on to the pictures.
We went to our neighborhood egg hunt to see the Easter bunny and hunt for eggs. Kate wasn't so sure about the bunny- but Brett was very sure about him- he wanted NOTHING to do with getting anywhere close to him. He would panic if we came within 10 feet of him. I tried to tell him that it was just another mommy dressed up like a bunny but he was still terrified.

Kate not so sure about the Easter bunny

Brett inside the clubhouse waving at the bunny

Brett right outside the clubhouse waving at the bunny

Brett finally working up the courage to give the bunny a high-five

Mommy- there is candy in here!!

Showing Daddy Bob all their eggs

Kate wanted to share her candy with the Easter bunny

Look at all those eggs!

HAPPY EASTER

2010-04-05T14:14:00.000-07:00

Fun day at the park

2010-03-27T13:09:00.001-07:00

We are loving the nice warm weather these days and met up with Nana for a picnic at the park. My sweet boy could play at the park all day long- he loves it. Kate is warming up to it- but would still rather stay in Mommy (or Nana's) lap and just watch. Oh how I love the Spring!

Don't you love the "shin guards while you play baseball" look

Look at that cute belly

The make-shift goal- mom

Brett and Kate's first Bible verse

2010-03-22T14:12:00.001-07:00

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Happy Kate-a-versary and Happy Heart-a-versary

2010-03-17T12:08:00.000-07:00

It is hard to believe that six months ago today my daughter was placed into my arms for the first time. It is hard to believe because I feel like she has been with us for so much longer than that. When I look back at the pictures from that day I almost don't even recognize my sweet girl. She came in kicking and screaming (literally). Little did we know how smart she was and that she really understood what was going on. She was so scared and mellow that first day- but by that night she was "coming out of her shell" and showing us her cute little personality. The first time she smiled was when we brought out the bubbles- I will never look at bubbles the same again.

I am not going to lie- the first few months we were home were hard. Learning to love and get to know how a toddler "ticks" is tricky- but I really feel like we have reached the other side now and I can't imagine life without my sweet, sweet girl. Kate has such a sweet heart and it has been a pure joy to watch her heart blossom as she learns to trust us more and more. She is one very special little girl and I am amazed every day that God chose me to be her mom.

Mommy and Daughter at last- look how solemn she is

My precious girl- what a difference six months make

Today is also Kate's one year Heart-a-versary. One year ago today the Lord healed her heart through the hands of a surgeon in Beijing. It is so hard for me to think about Kate going through all of that without her mom by her side. What I wouldn't have given to be sitting with her, holding her, and singing her to sleep during all of that. I hope and pray that she was not alone- but if she was I know that she quickly won the hearts of every doctor and nurse in the hospital. Kate makes every one she meets smile- a quality that I hope she keeps her whole life. To celebrate today we made heart shaped cookies and are making a heart shaped pizza (Kate's favorite food) for dinner. Below are some pictures of her with one of the cookies. Yes, I know there are a ton of them but she is just so stinkin' cute that I couldn't narrow them down any more.

Laughing at her big brother- who she ADORES!

Georgia trying to sneak in for a bite

Oh no Mommy! Georgia is trying to eat my "ookie"

You mean I can really eat it????

Sharing with Georgia...

and with Brett

My happy, happy, happy girl

I don't know what she is saying here- but I thought her face was so cute

Brett went upstairs to get a drink and Kate blew him a kiss

and he blew her a kiss back. As much as she adores her big brother- he equally adores her. Watching the way they love each other amazes me every single day. All I can say is the Lord prepared both of their hearts for each other- because the love they have for each other has no explanation- God did it. Just today I picked them up from the nursery at Bible Study and the very first thing she said to me was, "Mommy, Ge-Ge(that is what she calls him- it means big brother in Chinese) took care of me". My heart is so full.

The Skinner family....

2010-03-16T11:37:00.001-07:00

Toy Story style!

As I have mentioned before, Brett loves Toy Story (even though he has only seen it once) and has given every member of our family a character. He no longer calls them "Woody, Buzz, Jessie, and Bullseye" but Brett, Daddy, Kate and Mommy. So without further ado- here we all are...

Brett staring as "Woody"

Kate staring as "Jessie"

Daddy staring as "Buzz Lightyear"

Mommy staring as "Bullseye"- don't ask me why I got so "lucky" to be the horse.

And here they are- Woody and Buzz

(Almost) Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-10T07:18:00.001-08:00

They may only be 8 months apart- but you would never know it to look at their shoes.

Kate wears a size 5 shoe- Brett wears a size 11!

Doctor visits

2010-03-08T18:38:00.000-08:00

We recently had Brett's 3 year old check-up and Kate's heart doctor and vaccination catch-up visits. Brett was so proud to be three and answered all of Dr. Carter's questions like a pro. He was in the 80th percentile for weight and the 99th percentile for height!!!! Dr. Carter said if he had to guess he would guess that Brett would be between 6'3 and 6'4 when he was fully grown!!!!! I can't believe that my baby boy is going to be so much taller than me one day.

Kate had to get 3 more shots (she has already had 3- and still has 2 more to go bless her heart). I let Brett stay in the room while Kate got her shots. He held her hand and when she started crying he started singing "Oh how He loves you and me" to her- my heart melted right out of my chest right then and there. What a sweet boy- I am so thankful that he loves his sister so much! He takes such good care of her. And she adores him too. What an answered prayer!

We also went back to the Pediatric Cardiologist to have a check-up on Kate's heart. The echo was perfect and they found some trace amounts of pulmonary hypertension on the EKG- which the doctor was not concerned about at all. He said worst case scenario Kate would have some side effects when she was in her 50's- but he seriously doubted that she would ever have any trouble with her heart again. Praise the Lord!!!!!!!!! I know that He has great things planned for that sweet heart of hers.

And just because I can not do a post without a picture- here is one from Ma and Daddy Bob's yard.

Stacy, Anna, and Daddy Bob- this one is for you!

2010-03-01T13:22:00.001-08:00

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SNOW!!!!

2010-02-19T12:45:00.000-08:00

Last week we got 4 inches of snow- which is quite a lot for us southerners. Brett and Kate (and mommy and daddy) had a great time playing in it. There is something about snow that makes you feel like a kid again. There is nothing better then having a fun day playing in the snow and then coming in to a warm fire and some hot chocolate!

Look at all the snow!!!

Kate wasn't quite sure what to think about all the snow at first. She was afraid to walk in it so we had to pick her up and take her from place to place.

My two panda bears. Kate's foster family sent these hats to Brett and Kate for Christmas.

My girl

Kate catching the snow

Daddy showing Brett how to make a snowball

Brett having a blast

Kate getting into the snowball action

My handsome guys

Mr. Blue eyes!

Making a snow man

So proud of their snowman

Brett thought it was so fun to slide down the slide in the snow

Brett about to throw a snowball at me- look at that cute face!

Painting in the snow. I filled water bottles up with water then put food coloring in them. They LOVED this- it kept them busy for at least 30 minutes.

Sweet Georgia- look at all the snowballs that got attached to her legs.

Painting the snowman

Monster Jam 2010

2010-02-15T12:57:00.000-08:00

5 weeks ago (yes- I am way behind in my blog posts), Brian took Brett to the "Monster truck show". Brett had been talking about it for weeks and was soooo excited about going. Mommy, however, was a nervous wreck about him going without her. So I did what every over-protective mom would do- dressed him in the brightest shirt he owned (in case he got away from Daddy), and wrote our name and cell phone numbers on a piece of paper with strict instructions to give that to someone if he couldn't find Daddy.

Once they got there he was a little overwhelmed- but he warmed up quickly and had a great time. He did, however, say that if he goes next year he wants Kate and I to go with him and Daddy. That's my boy!!!!!!!!!

He plays with his monster trucks all the time now. He will get several of his cars and line them up in a row and then have his monster trucks jump over them. He even gets his tractors out to help the monster trucks get up when the fall down. So cute!

His favorite truck- Grave Digger

Oh my goodness- how cute is he!!! Look at him holding on to his monster truck. Oh I could just eat him up! (note the bright yellow shirt!)

This was his favorite part- when they would crash and the tractors had to help them

My two men

4 years

2010-02-08T13:09:00.001-08:00

Four years ago, on January 29th, 2006, we attended a meeting with Christian World Adoption and decided to pursue adoption. Little did we know at that time how long it was going to take to get our Kate home to us. But now, here we are 1, 460 days later and our precious Kate is finally home for good. What an amazing journey- filled with lots of surprises- the first of which was finding out just 3 1/2 months later that we were pregnant with Brett. And then, when we least expected it, we found Kate on our agency's "Special Needs" list. You just never know what the Lord has planned- waiting is hard- but His timing is perfect! And we have two amazing miracles to prove it!!

Brian and I in the mountains the weekend we decided to pursue adoption

Our sweet miracle #1 just one year later

Two years later and still waiting on his sister to come home

Three years later--- and still waiting

Four years later- the picture we have waited so long to see. Miracle #2- our Kate!

Our "Peanut" loves peanut butter

2010-01-30T18:59:00.001-08:00

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Brett's 3rd birthday

2010-01-20T15:37:00.000-08:00

How is it possible that my baby boy is 3 years old?! He is growing up WAY too fast. I just want to put him in a box and keep him this age. He is turning into the sweetest, funniest, and most amazing little boy (or big boy as he would correct me!) Thought I would use his birthday as an excuse to write down a few things I don't want to forget about Brett at this age:

- He still loves all things boy- cars, sports, monster trucks, wrestling, running, playing in the woods, collecting sticks and rocks, tractors, and being outside

-He, I am proud to say, LOVES his momma. He often tells me, "I love you Mommy"- melts my heart every time. And yesterday he said, "I like your pretty shirt Mommy"- I could just eat him up. Don't get me wrong- he loves his Daddy too- but Mommy usually wins out right now. I am told that will change in a year or so- so I am trying to soak up all I can right now.

-He loves all things Toy Story. He has only seen the movie one time- but he loves the characters. He has assigned each member of our family as a character on the movie- I will do a post on that soon.

- He is the absolute BEST big brother. Just today I gave him a rice crispy treat and he would not take it from me until I gave him one to give to Kate too. He will also tell her all the time that she looks pretty after I dress her. He is her biggest cheerleader- I will often overhear him saying, "You can do it Kate- good job Kate". He takes such good care of her and I have loved seeing him take on his role as a big brother- he has done it with such grace and we are so proud of him.

-He says the funniest things and makes me laugh all the time. My mom recently taught him to tell me that I was the best mom in the whole world. Well my cute little guy gets it mixed up and tells me that I am the biggest mommy in the whole world- makes me laugh every time.

-He has such a sweet heart. I can't wait to see how the Lord uses his heart.

-He is still active- very active. If he is awake- he is usually running. He will sit still to watch Curious George (one of his favorites) or a movie- but that is about it.

- He is happy 99.9% of the time. He very rarely whines or complains- and when he does it is usually because he is sick or tired. And he has still never thrown a temper tantrum (thank goodness)

- He loves to play the Wii - and if you don't mind me bragging for a minute- he is really good. And by really good I mean he beats me a lot of the time- and I am not letting him win either. Brian thinks this means he is going to be an athlete- we will see.

WE LOVE YOU BRETT! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

So on the morning of his birthday he wakes up and is so excited about getting a birthday cake. Oops! I was making him a cake for his birthday party, but didn't think about getting him one for his actual birthday. So, after lunch at Moe's (his very favorite place to eat), I take him to the store and tell him he gets to pick out any cake he wants. Most of the cakes are huge and I start to worry but decide you only turn 3 once so I was just going to stay quiet and let him get what he wants- just knowing he was going to pick the enormous Diego cake. Well what does my boy pick? This teeny tiny $5 cake. That's my boy!!

So excited about blowing out the candles

Icing- wonder where he gets his love of icing from?

Showing us how old he is. Isn't he the cutest thing! We tried to teach him how to hold his fingers down, but he came up with this idea all on his own.

Brett's birthday cake for his construction themed party

Kate and Brett checking out the cake (can you believe how much taller he is than Kate!)

Some of the "job sites" for the party. I gave all the kids a "work assignment" card with all the centers I had set up for the party listed on it. They were to do each "assignment" and check it off when they were done.

Their work aprons complete with everything they would need to get all of their "work" done.

Brett hammering in a nail

Jumping in the Jump Zone- apron, glasses, and all!

Digging with Daddy

Mary Joy all dressed and ready

Kate hammering

Sam getting ready to knock down the tower

Mary Joy making matches with the tractor cards. On one of the days that Brett was sick and we were going stir crazy in the house, we went out and took pictures of different tractors and construction scenes near our house. I then made doubles of the pictures and made a matching game with them.

Sweet Daddy Bob helping Brett paint the house

Bryce, Chloe, and Molly Beth building lego towers

Our "peanut" loving her peanut butter and jelly sandwich

Singing Happy Birthday and blowing out the candles